This month of moderation of mine has me thinking on habits, good and bad. For some time now I’ve thought that if I could just do something one day a week, regularly, it would help ingrain it as a solid habit. I’m still not there but believe this could be key.
Take something you know you should do but continue to put off or find excuses to get around. Maybe it’s something as mundane as flossing your teeth regularly or maybe it’s a deeper thing like wanting to go meatless in your diet more often. Surely we can slot one day each week to do these things that we think we should do, and/or want to do, but somehow end up skipping over again and again.
A lifestyle overhaul is daunting and most of us prefer to stay in our comfort zones over the effort it takes to make over your lifestyle. But, one little thing a week? How hard is that? I already run pretty much every week, except for when weather or schedules don’t allow it. Surely I could add yoga class to that. If we choose just one thing for each day it becomes a minor investment in time. And maybe, just maybe, we’ll do it more than once a week. Flossing Friday might become every other day. Weight lifting Wednesday might lead me to picking them up on another night during TV commercials, too.
Also, NOT doing something once a week can be a good start. Want to spend less time online – see if you can’t spend one day unplugged. Go for a walk outside instead, or pick up a book you’ve been meaning to read. For me, not wanting to drink wine so often means a day off with no wine at dinner once a week is step one. Maybe eating out or convenience foods is a bad habit of yours (it is for me!). Making yourself a meal at least once a week is certainly doable even for us non cooks.
I think I’m ready to try. Between limiting my wine intake for this month, and the resulting lessons and better utilization of my time, and no clothes shopping for Lent I now find I have the space in my life for these things. All that is left is to implement these good habits. One week at a time.
Have you tried a similar approach? How did it go? What habits do you really want to instill but never seem to get to ‘stick’ for long?